Can a person be undeserving of love?
There is not one person on this planet who is undeserving of love.
You do not have to look a certain way, behave in a certain way, or have a certain amount of income.
In the movies, people always seem to have it all together. They have lots of money, are flawless in their complexion, usually very fit, always wear the latest designer clothing and seem to have a life that most would dream of.
The truth is, that what you think of yourself shows, and people can feel it on a vibrational level. If you are not confident, you go through life in a very different way than someone who is confident.
Let’s talk about the different ways and reasons people are deserving of love.
- Every sentient being on the planet is deserving of love, simply because they exist.
- When you practice compassion towards others, you attract people who are able to see who you are on the inside.
- When you practice random acts of kindness, you will be more than likely to have kindnesses returned.
- Taking time out for others shows them that you care.
These are just a few points on the ways you are deserving, and some of the reasons. The biggest one of these is that you are human and that you are alive.
There is a deeper thought that arises here. And that is the people who have done wrong. Are they deserving of love? I truly believe that the ones who have done wrong are screaming out for attention. At some point, it really doesn’t matter what kind of attention they get, because they simply want to be heard.
So if you feel like you are undeserving of love because you have done something wrong, the best thing you can do is to reflect on what happened, and then ask for forgiveness from those you did wrong. From there, I suggest that you get some help and start making the changes necessary for you to be heard in a way that creates the opportunity for people to get to know you on a much deeper level.
If you feel like you are undeserving of love because of the way you look, etc, remember this. Love comes to you when you least expect it. Liking yourself and spending time with others, will make all the difference in the world.
And if you feel like you are undeserving because of the way you look,
When your self-esteem has taken a beating, you will be less likely to think of yourself as attractive, and when that happens, it is less likely that others will find you attractive either.
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