How do I stop feeling worthless after rejection?
Dear Rejection Magnet:
Rejection isn’t always about you. Rejection can be about many things and mostly we misunderstand rejection. The person who rejects you, is coming from their own perspective and their own reality. There may be many things at play. Some of it may be their own self esteem issues, their perception of what is possible for them. And sometimes the other person is living in a prison they created in their own mind. One where they won’t enter into a relationship of any kind until everything is absolutely perfect.
There is never a perfect time to be in a relationship. Love comes when you least expect it, often when you are not in the market for love. Some live in the past and replay or attract the very past types of relationships and issues associated with them, that they are hoping to get away from.
So remember this if nothing else: Its not personal and most likely its about them.
Having said that, if you are getting rejected on a consistent basis, there may be some habits, or behaviors that you might want to address.
Keep going, square your shoulders and try again.
Have a wonderful day.
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Caterina Barregar, Relationship Coach Specializing In Self Esteem
Medical Intuitive, Reiki Master
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